Chris Brown and Rihanna . . Their Dysfunctional Love Is What’s Wrong With Black America.

Updated: March 1, 2013

And they say to look no further then the “wide, wide world of sports” to find reflections of our twisted society, the endless  DUI cases, beatings of women, financial ruin, but I beg to differ the world of entertainment is a ongoing carnival of fools, need I say more than . . .  Chris Brown and Rihanna . . . .

Their ultra-dysfunctional “Relationship” is precisely what’s wrong with Black America.

Yes, I know there’s dysfunctionalism across White America, however that’s irrelevant and meaningless to the plight of Black folks; if White folks, collectively, have got a cold or some perhaps even  the flu, we Black folks must have Cancer, Tuberculosis, Polio, Leprosy

I know, I know, I know, the poster boy n’ girl are “Black Royalty” in the sometimes trifling’ world of Black popular culture. Think James Dean and Elizabeth Taylor, circa 1955, dipped in chocolate. Billy Dee n’ Diana Ross – updated.  And to an even greater extent Brown and Rihanna  are “crossover” stars who “represent” and are symbolic of  “Black love” and adored by kids all over the planet, but their tale is littered with acts of immaturity, violence and stupidity.

Ken n’ Barbie bronzed, and as-hollow inside as the Mattel dolls.

Nonetheless, I’m sorry I’ve got to be a cloud on a sunny-day mon, but these two full-grown teenagers, their adult-child melodrama is sad-to-say a tragic example of the ills n’ woes which plague my people – we’re so ignorant and uninformed that we can’t decipher folks are laughing at us, not with us.

Did you dig that . . . laughing at us, not with us.

This pair’s affair, and pop-culture’s elevation of them, the widespread acceptance and adulation of these two Buffoons . . . their notoriety and popularity –  it not merely reflects our “Black world” – but all the loooooove they receive condones the upside-down/inside-out ass-backward world they, you, we dwell-in.

Yes, the whole soap opera glorifies our contemporary Back culture’s dysfunctionalism. Their affair embodies the thuggarazation, the  ghettoization and ultimately the tragic “niggerrazation” of our once proud Afro-American culture.

Can I get the Last Poets to help me . . ..
Niggers come in from work and change into pimping clothes
And hit the streets to make some quick change
Niggers change their hair from black to red to blond
And hope like hell their looks will change

Nigger kill other niggers
Just because one didn’t receive the correct change

Hey-sit back , wee-lax before you start demanding they pull my “Black Man” card, demand- back my secret “Black Man” decoder-ring,  my White Canvas Chuck Taylors and my sacred “Cake Cutter”afro- comb” . . . .

Of course I’m not saying Brown and Rihanna are the only representatives of Black love, we’ve got The “First Family” – the Obamas. Or even Tinsel Town’s everything-they-touch-turns-to-titanium love bunnies Beyonce and Jay-Z as examples of “Hollywood Wholesomeness”

Wholesomeness is an lifestyle  it seems “fast- laning-it” Black folks deplore.

But you know, like I know . . . the “Black family” seldom, 1 in 4, 1 in 5 “families” looks like the Obamas.

And our intellectual base defends and rationalizes that horrific fact. While we all know it’s an pre-determining indicator of impending hard-times/the chaos we see around us; broken, busted, maleless families. And it’s so-pervasive that we, yes we act like it’s the way it ought be. Black Women don’t logically yearn for a good man, a husband, a  father for their children . . . Black men don’t logically desire families. No, instead they just want stables of whores . . . . yeah, trifling’ is the word I’m looking for.

I wouldn’t want my son to grow-up to be like young lost Mr Brown, an abuser of women. This is a crime which ought-be, in a more-perfect world, about as low as a coward-with-testicles can go. And I sure-as-hell wouldn’t want my daughter bringing this mancub home. And sad-to-say,  the last porcelain princess I’d want my little girl to emulate and imitate is a “lady” like Rihanna.


“Bimboism” is Rihanna, she personifies the term “object.” Coupled with her back-alley low standards, this insane ability of hers  to “stand-by” her punk. Please! To accept the abuse of a popular pretty-boy weasel as she does – is a disservice to young black ladies who horrifically take their clueless-cue from her.

And note, her continue blind Luv-Jones only encourages the Black neanderthals, tells men “she’ll take it . . . ”

Forgive me, my old man didn’t say a damn thing about sparing the feelings of so-called grown folks. And if you think I owe these two clowns an apology – you’re crazy. It’s sad we Black folks can’t stand the “Bill Cosby” truth. We got to to have “Big Momma” sit us down n’ rub our tummies. . . . blame and attribute all our individual ills and woes to the White devil . . ..

The White man didn’t backhand Rihanna – that piss-poor example of a man Chris Brown did, and his boys laughed along with him afterward.

Boys is the key word there.

Look, I spend my day working in a inner city/urban/Black, right off of MLK Blvd,  public middle school, been there for almost a decade, and I can say to you with all certainty that both these cartoon characters are admired and praised by the rank n’ file student body . . . his abuse of her is rationalized, minimized and justified. . . by girls even  –  “you know how girls can be talkin’ Mr Cortez, you know she said some stuff to make him hit her . . . .”

Let’s not treat this in some superficial manner, “our” as in Black folks, our institutions and organizations which still shine a spotlight on them –  their acceptance, embracement, anointment and immolation of this couple . . . is a large significant slice of what’s wrong with us. A people already running far behind in the race . . . and we lower our standards.

“Women are born, ladies are made . . . Men are born, gentlemen are made.” Hand-crafted by the absolute love of parents, that’s two people – who’ve as a top-priority preparing their children to live a better life than they did. Horrifically our Black American culture has been stripped-down to what will see today, babies mommas and my Niggah.

This is our own branding of ourselves, not White society’s.

Honestly, I seldom if ever inquire of a Black child, and for that matter Latino . . .  “where’s your dad . . .” the answer tends to be sad, predictable and half-the-time tragic.

We’ve 3 or 4 lost generations of babies having babies, then raising babies who’re having babies . . . without a good man in sight. No?

While let’s admit we’ve redefined what a “man” is, what a “lady” is, what a “husband” is.  Predictably we’ve redefined the “value” of a formal education, of “mastering” a vocational craft . .

This is what “my” generation did. Yes we helped get a Black man in the prestigious Oval Office, but we can’t get our own kids out of the deans office, the detectives office, the undertakers office.. When I start lying, sit me down.

I’m telling you, history will depict the ultra-materialistic Black me/my/X n’ Y generations as weak, soft gold-diggers who turned our focus on the mundane – on furs, Platinum and Porches, and walked around with weak, lame-ass excuses to justify our simplistic pawn like behavior, a behavior which  our great grand parents would be ashamed of.

Niggers act so coooool and slick
Causing white people to say:
What makes you niggers act like that?
Niggers act like you ain’t never seen nobody act before
But when it comes to acting out revolution
Niggers say: ‘I can’t dig them actions!’
Niggers are scared of revolution

Chris is so-cool, and Rihanna’s so-very hot – exactly, precisely what Black American culture is desperately in need-of, another playboy and his bunnie. Not a fireman and nurse, not housewife and dentist, but two airheads who have the ability to sing n’ dance and the people throw them money so they’re “rich.”

What more can one ask for, right?.

Now granted I clearly understand there needs to be examples of Black beauty and success, but good god, are you serious, this is what passes as an ebony fairy tale, for our youngsters to aspire to . . .?

This is tabloid sheet Jet Magazine Buffoonery

I ask this question with all sincerity . . . is there any behavior which shames us?

If not the mass-production of daddyless babies, then what about the shooting gallery Chi-Town has regressed to? Or for that matter any town or city we predominant . . . .  Is there no shameful behavior which we, as the Black court-of-public opinion we’re willing to cop-to?

Let me go back to the Last Poets;
Niggers do a lot of shootin’
Niggers do a lot of shootin’
Niggers shoot off at the mouth
Niggers shoot pool, niggers shoot craps
Niggers cut around the corner and shoot down the street
Niggers shoot sharp glances at white women
Niggers shoot dope into their arm
Niggers shoot guns and rifles on New Year’s Eve
A new year that is coming in
The white police will do more shooting at them

I bet anyone within eyeshot of this; Black girls, under the age of 14 watch more NBA/Atlanta Housewives type TV then they do “Disney”. They don’t want to be Tiana, or China or any of the more wholesome Mayberry RFD/Cosby Show type Black girls – they want to be Tamar Braxton or one of the Atlanta Housewives role models.

They want to be 21st renditions of the 20th century stereotypical “Sapphire,” but now, the last few generations, who don’t read, who’ve no clue “who n’ what” that derogatory image is. Just as they’ve no-clue who was  Amos n’ Andy nor Stepin Fetchit – which in itself  explains why they put on minstrel shows in NFL endzones every week during the Fall.

That’s right my friend, this is another episode of  “Negroes Lost in Space . . .!”  Non-thinking  Negroes who call not only each other “Niggahs” endlessly and relentlessly, but-then-again . . . they call Asians and Jews Niggers too.

Niggers are players, niggers are players, are players
Niggers play football, baseball and basketball
While the white man cuttin’ off their balls

I can’t count the times I’ve witnessed our Black kids calling White teachers and administrators “niggers.” Latino Kids go around calling each other Niggers and calling Black kids Niggers . . .  and Black kids defend it. Please note, most are reading, writing and doing arithmetic 3, maybe 4 grade levels behind . . . go figure.

And they mirror, as in act-like and talk-like the adults in their households, on the block, in church. Not the White folks across town.

Is it really a Gumby-like stretch if I say our children have been betrayed by their recent lackadaisical ancestors, for without question we’ve not prepared our offspring to compete within Mainstream US society. It seems we’re more suited-for and deliberately prepared-for life on the Black reservation.

It’s tragically not only the NFL or NBA which hi-lite n’ showcase our ills n’ woes . . .Rihanna and Brown reflect and embody a lot of what’s wrong with us, it’s too bad we can’t see it.


  1. Gary Norris Gray BASN Staff Reporter

    March 1, 2013 at 11:51 am

    my brother haven been saying this for years …but america refuses to look at the obama family because god forbid black folk would follow them


    March 10, 2013 at 5:32 am


    • desi

      March 10, 2013 at 9:16 am

      Please enlighten me

  3. Danny Jones

    March 12, 2013 at 7:39 am

    I don’t care about your article… Be a good American, do the right thing. Act white and everything will be alright. You’re filled with hate, it will be your downfall. (Oprah Winfrey)

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  5. Irving Stenbeck

    April 28, 2013 at 10:47 am

    Christopher Maurice “Chris” Brown (born May 5, 1989) is an American recording artist, dancer, and actor. Born in Tappahannock, Virginia, he taught himself to sing and dance at a young age and was involved in his church choir and several local talent shows. Having signed with Jive Records in 2004, Brown released his self-titled debut studio album the following year.”

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